I woke up to Eric Swalwell, the self-appointed conscience of cable news, fending off sexual misconduct allegations. And I thought of my cousin Vito. Vito…
Consider this: the only reason you’re not currently dating the woman you actually want isn’t because she rejected you. It’s because YOU rejected YOU long…
My buddy Bill had a problem. He’d met this girl at a friend’s rooftop thing in Williamsburg. Cute. Funny. The kind of woman who orders…
The biggest texting mistake smart men make is thinking one text can save them. It’s a mistake I made too… back when I was still…
Knock knock. Who’s there? A nice guy. A nice guy who? A nice guy who bought her dinner, texted her good morning, and never heard…
Honesty is the WORST policy. At least when it comes to dating. Or, to be blunt: when it comes to making a woman want you.…
When a girl gets a new message on Hinge, Bumble, or whatever app she's using, she doesn't see your full message. She sees a preview—just…
I just got off a coaching call where a guy was doing everything “right” with texting—he was brief, he wasn’t needy, he had decent banter—yet…
Most people start a Substack with a “Hey guys, thanks for being here!” post. I started mine by slamming a ledger shut. Because if you’re…
To be a single man these days comes with a hefty price. For the last 10 years or so, a debt has been imposed on…