How to Meet Women: The "Fire, Aim, Ready" Paradigm

If we were to meet up, have a drink together, and then go meet women, it would only take us seeing you do one approach…

Top 10 Things Holding You Back from Dating Your Dream Girl

Your pride—The number one thing that holds most guys back from meeting a girl who really excites them is their own stupid pride. Get over…

Men’s Dating Advice: The Top 7 Biggest Hunks of Bullshit VERSUS the Most Helpful Nuggets of Gold

A question I’m constantly asked is whether I feel it was necessary that I went through all the “bullshit” dating advice before I arrived at…

How to be a Successful Student of Men’s Dating Advice

Sometimes I feel like a fortuneteller. I can often tell a guy’s future. I can tell how a guy’s is going to progress, what sort…

Why I Hate Neil Strauss: An Essay

Neil Strauss is the worst. I’m not name-calling, bickering, or launching some underhanded smear campaign. Strauss is the worst because he’s the lowest form of…

Approach Anxiety: He Made Out with the Android Second…

He made out with the ugly girl first. I’d told him to approach the redhead he’d been eyeing all night. Tom gazed at me with…

Why Most Guys Prefer Pickup Skills over Women, or the Hidden Secret of Playing to Your Strengths

Before I delve into dating, let me digress for a moment. I want to confess something… I suck at sports. I’m uncoordinated. I don’t have…

When the 80/20 Rule Flips, or What to Do When You Become “Good” with Women

Newbs—you gotta love ‘em. Whether you’re learning how to become better with women or playing some dorky multiplayer videogame, there will always be “newbs”—people trying…

The Beauty of Hitting Bottom: How I learned cold approach pickup

Stop. If you want to see the world through rose-colored glasses, stop reading right now. Seriously, what I’m about to write is going to be…

ApproacHER: My iPhone app

So the last few weeks I've been hard at work on developing my own iPhone app. I designed it as a mini-course on getting over…