After you’ve established some rapport with a woman, you must learn to open yourself up. If you’re anything like I was, you might be afraid to open up because it leaves you emotionally vulnerable. As guys, often we believe learning “game” will save us from opening up emotionally and connecting…
If I’ve learned anything in the last few years, where I’ve met and dated women in manner completely beyond comprehension to any sensible human, I’ve learned this: things are not as they appear. Entering the dark woods of seduction is like walking into a carnival funhouse where contorted mirrors distort…
What’s your best opener? If you can answer that question, you aren’t doing as well with women as you should be. If you have an opener you consider “good”—or worse, if you’re looking for an opener you’d consider good—you’ve already lost. That’s because the best way to “open” a woman…
Let's get down to business with some hot tips for how to text a girl. And there's no better way to do that then we with some text tips, a.k.a. The 10 Best Texts to Send Hot Girls...OF ALL TIME! Today I want to give you my 10 best texts...right…
Last night I was out with my editor and friend, Bobby Rio. It’s pretty awesome when you have a job where hooking up with girls is considered R&D. We arrived at a rooftop lounge, grabbed a round of drinks, and scoped the place out. It looked like the typical shenanigans…
Some of you may have seen my post on TSB this morning on my top 5 novels for getting better with women. Guys always ask me to recommend them good book, and especially if those good books will help improve their success in dating. Well…those recommendations are my absolute best.…
Gentlemen. It was fun while it lasted—even if you could only stay a minute before you had to get back to your friends. Let us remember the good times, like when your stripper ex-girlfriend drove that Maserati off a modeling shoot and you had to protect her from a gang…
“Guys who’re good with women are easy to recognize, but hard to notice.” That’s a maxim I throw around often. Working in the dating advice industry has afforded me the opportunity to meet and observe the full range of men—from guys with incredible charisma to guys who don’t even know…
It was our third date. We were back at my apartment. Candlelight flicked over the walls. French pop music played on softly on the stereo. She and I looked at each other, our faces reflecting the same confused-but-trying-not-to-appear-confused expression. We were two strangers who followed our strange attraction for one…
Wanting to be a “PUA” was so 2007. These days, most guys cringe when they hear the three-letter acronym and only use the poo-ahs lexicon ironically. Hilariously, Zack and I have based our entire career on being normal and…actually picking up chicks (wow, there’s a novel concept). While other companies…