Honesty is the WORST policy. At least when it comes to dating. Or, to be blunt: when it comes to making a woman want you. Yet everyone from your mom to your therapist (and every well-meaning friend in between) has told you otherwise. Of course they did. Slogans about honesty…
When a girl gets a new message on Hinge, Bumble, or whatever app she's using, she doesn't see your full message. She sees a preview—just the first few characters that pop up in her notification or message list...
“Change her mood, not her mind.” I heard that from the smartest guy I knew when it came to women one night at a dive bar in the East Village, condensing years of dating wisdom into six simple words. I nodded like I understood, but truth is, I didn’t have…
Let me break this down for you because most guys are handling tension all wrong… When a woman pulls back or goes cold, guys panic. Their gut instinct is to rush in and fix it, to get that closure, to smooth things over. They THINK they’re being proactive but all…
Let me start by telling you something uncomfortable: women test men. Yes, they do. Always have, always will. And no, it’s not because they’re manipulative...
Whenever you get that sense a woman might be pulling away, you're almost always right. Now, that doesn’t mean it’s over, but it does mean you're at a critical juncture. How you handle it and respond is pretty much going to decide whether or not there’s a future for you…
If you knew exactly what to say to get a woman laughing or excited to talk to you, how much easier would your life be? Whether meeting a girl for the first time or talking to your long-term girlfriend, you’d always come off polished, charismatic, and attractive. Moreover, the days…
A few months back, I posted this as my Facebook status: If you’re reading this, you probably received a text from me last night (or, technically, this morning). Just wanted to say: I meant every word. Seriously. Totally wasn’t the 7½ beers talking ;] #goodtimes #goodtalk #seeyaoutthere As you’d expect,…
Imagine this scene… I’m sitting across from this Japanese girl with incredible cleavage at a sushi restaurant in midtown Manhattan. Our table is on the second floor, right next to a waterfall (yes, there’s a fucking waterfall in the restaurant!). Chill lounge music bumps in the background as the tables…
Last year I wrote the 10 Best Texts to Send Girls…OF ALL TIME. Now, time hasn’t ended and those 10 texts are still totally relevant and effective. But since these posts are fun to put together, and I think they teach good fundamentals for texting and communicating with women, I…